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Kimberly Mayer's avatar

Your piece rang so many bells with me, Jane, particularly the "mental ping pong games" and that "alcohol had started taking up space in my brain." Eventually I found it easier to not drink at all, than to play referee. I think January is as good a month as any to quit drinking.

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Ellery's avatar

The perimenopausal night sweats are definitely affected by alcohol. I am 47 and had to cut back a few years back when I realized overdoing it was definitely leading to the middle of the night, waking up soaked in my own sweat, really hot and uncomfortable.

I think our society needs to look in general at how much alcohol consumption is encouraged and expected. My husband and I did what I dubbed “Dry Lentuary” the past two years - no drinking, 40 days, 40 nights- actually we were in that when the pandemic started...which I was grateful for as it set me up to not depend on booze. Resetting the habit of reaching for it a little too much is important, and I think most of us are not alcoholics, but just in bad habit patterns.

I still love a good glass of wine —but I really try to only have a glass or two on weekends these days. My sleep really is better for it.

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